my roommate got a gift from her boyfriend. its just a picture of the 2 of them so it doesnt look like much, but then i turned it over. on the back he has written this draw out speech about how happy she makes him and how much he loves her. my friend at college in another state was talking to me the other day. tells me shes got this guy whos apparently head over heels for her. he did something to hurt her which i think isnt even that big of a deal but of course she had to draw it out and make it this huge huge issue. in his apology speech he mentioned how he never wants to hurt her, and how he never wants to make her cry, and how she is such an amazing person whos friends love her. this girl doesnt even have feelings for him. this makes me wonder what the hell i have to do to get someone to say shit like that to me. should i model my behavior after these 2 and become an obnoxious, needy, whiny, high maintenance kind of girl who, when she doesnt have enough drama in her life, fabricates some sort of shit just to make things more difficult?? seems to me like it works.