my grandpa died 29 years ago today. hey thats like a golden birthday. except not exactly a birthday. i obviously never met him and my family never talks about him so im like is this a conspiracy? i didnt even know what he looked like until i found some pictures in my dads scrapbook a month ago. he looks exactly like my uncle. they are the same person. i hate to ask my grandma to tell me about him because she remarried my grandpa not long after and i consider him my real grandpa and i dont want to hurt his feelings but inquiring about my "real" grandpa. i dont know if it would or not.